Are you apprehensive about pre-marital counseling?

Over half of the engaged couples who take my marriage preparation course have a lot of apprehension. Maybe that is due,  in part, to the fact that many think of it as “pre-marital counseling” instead of education and coaching.  Adam described his experience of not being so sure:

Dear Rev. Frank, the wedding counseling experience has been very enjoyable. We were a little apprehensive at first, however, I think that the counseling exceeded our expectations. It allowed us to talk through areas that we had discussed previously, but we gained new perspectives. Thanks.

And Jenni wrote:  This experience has been great and very well thought out. I am so glad that we came to this program and were able to sit down with you and prepare for our life together. It has helped me to be a better person for myself and for Adam. It has helped our lines of communication with each other which I know will carry over into our marriage. Now I feel much more prepared and closer to Adam than before! Thank you! 

After more working with over 200 couples in the past 4 years, I don’t ever hesitate to tell them that I’m sure they will enjoy it and find it to be a very valuable experience. That’s because, all 200 plus couples (in their own words) have enjoyed it and found it to be a very valuable experience. You will too!

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